Three years ago I married my husband, Chris, and I promised him for better or worse, richer or poorer, sickness or health. I kept my promise, He slapped me while I was pregnant with our daughter (worse) we had a beautiful child together (better) I worked 80 hours to provide everything we wanted, compared to his normal monday thru friday schedule 5-630 and 9-430, (richer) I quit my job and stayed at home b/c it was to much for him (poorer) I took him chicken soup and pills and when my daughter took his sleeping pills, I rushed her to the ER because he didn't wanna get off the couch,(sickness) and I would take care of our child while he played video games all day (health). I put up with this all because I thought I loved him I thought that is what i was supposed to do. He had to go for on the job training, for four months and while he was there i found out he hated cheated on me several times, I was devastated I knew I could never forgive him it would always be in the back of my mind. As he had orders to go to korea, we decided to seperate and end our marriage. While he was in Korea I moved on with my life (see blog about the last year), I feel in my heart that we are no longer together. I found out he had slept with 13 women in the short time we were together including one of my best friends wives. On labor day i agreed that our daughter could stay with his parents for a month to visit, after a week they stopped answering my phone calls and emails. I drove the 1500 miles to pick up my daughter and they took off with her. After a week of hoping and praying the police officer called me and told me that i could pick up my daughter, one of the happiest days of my life!!! After a year of being called names messing with me in ways I can only describe as cruel and unusual, he is back stateside, me wanting to put the past behind me agreed to a civil divorce. This morning he text me at 410 am telling me "oh yeah, u try to screw me over in anyway, i will let the court system know that we are not seperated, Including the fact that the army is putting me in KY. and all the other dirt I have on you" WTH?? let me get this straight I offer to pick u up from the airport (an hour away) let you stay at my house (for a week) use my car (while he is here) and eat my food, and you text me this bullshit??? I am done being nice to him, I am hiring an attorney and I am going after child support and alimony I mean how fucked up in the head do you have to be to be this mean and spitful to someone who is offering their home to you? Ugh men!!!
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our wedding day 2009
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about a year into our marriage
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