Well I haven't blogged in about forever maybe I need to get back into it and really put some effort into it so here is a blog to catch up since March (my last blog) so I would like to recap April May and most of June.
So here goes;
April;
Brought Easter all my kids were with me and life was good!! Nothing spectacular that I can recall happened. Sorry to be a bit boring but you know it happens lol
May;
Well lets see started off fairly normal my baby girl started her pre school experience and loved it. I am a little bitter sweet at this point she is my baby my last child and that I know these years go by so quickly and I am scared I am going to miss them.
Towards the end of May I had a court date to divorce my dbag of a husband, now keep in mind I have EVERY right to call him that. While we were married he hit me he tried to rape me and he cheated on me. So I decided about 2 years ago that I wanted a divorce..............it's been a LONG two years!! His parents asked shortly after our separation if lil bit could come visit. My thought process who am I to keep her from her family? Of course she can!!! Little did I know that they would try and keep her practically kidnap her and overall just be mean lying manipulative people. I had to get the cops involved on that one. December of last year he asked if he could have her for Christmas I said sure, again this is her Dad he hasn't seen her in years (due to military issues not b/c he doesn't want to of course) we agreed Dec 22nd to Jan 15th. On January 3rd I receive notification he has petitioned the court to strip me of my rights. Why you ask? because according to him I am a bad mother he has no proff of this and he himself hasn't been an active parent in her life for 2 years. So we go to court I pay $2500 for an attorney where he lives just so the judge could throw it out, I turn around and pay $2500 for an attorney in the state I live to go after him for taking my daughter on Feburary 19th I got her back Judge awarded me sole custody until the hearing for the divorce. Which was supposed to be March 13, but no he had to cancel on that making me wait to May 20. Whew sorry about the long explanation but it all leads up to this lol We get in the court he wants to settle my attorney suggest we all go sit down and talk about it. He is bitching and crying that he will have to move to the barracks and won't see lil bit and blah blah blah. So me being the nice person I am (yes I realize I am overly nice at times) offer to wait to handle the divorce issue so he can see his child and she can have a place to stay while she is with him. So we settled on he pays me child support and intermittent alimony and he gets her for 60 days in the summer. Well his days start June 1 to August 1 seeing how it was 10 days away and he had driven a long way to come to court I offered for her to be able to be picked up that afternoon. I know I know I don't need to be so nice but in all honesty I want her to have a relationship with her dad and need to stop. Anyway so he says oh I can't do that I can't take her now I am not prepared for her (even though I asked him at the beginning of May and he said yes) So I was like ok see you in 10 days. Later on he calls and ask if lil bit can go to her Grandparents for a few weeks until he gets things ready there. Sure no problem so off she goes to her Grandparents. I will say its against my better judgement but it is his time with her.
June
The beginning of June I put in my two week notice for my job I had worked for the last 3 years, it was crazy and most people thought I was nuts, but in all honesty God told me to do it so I obeyed. I am going to side story again just so y'all know what and why I am so excited. Five years ago I enlisted in the Army I was all set to ship out, then I found out I was pregnant that was devastating to me for years I have talked to recruiters tried on my own to join. A few weeks ago as I was praying for something any light to be shined on the path God wants me to take, he nudged me and said try enlisting I was like no way God they already shut that door. Again he nudged me and nudged me and screamed it at me. So I called a recruiter and I am claiming to be in basic by October of this year!! God is so good!!
On the family side I have my son, daughter and step son (who from here on out will be known as my son) here with us for the summer my oldest son, Big T and my oldest daughter, Lil A wants to stay with me for good this makes my heart leap at just the thought :) Lil bit is with her Grandparents still and with no sign of seeing her Dad for longer than the 10 minutes he saw her before he left. I have given up being nice and spoken to my attorney about our next option. I am no longer going to feel sorry for him and bend over backwards for someone who could care less to see his child!!
On relationships I am with Adam who is a great guy and all around amazing person. He makes me happy and as soon as all this BS with my soon to be ex is over with, well we will be married. I am claiming August 5th I don't know why but that is the date that keeps coming back to me!!
In the friendship department, I am blessed to call some of the most amazing people I have ever met friends!! The only thing I ask is that each and everyone of you lift up my friends that will soon be going overseas, I love these guys like brothers, sons and the best of friends. Please continue to remember them in your thoughts and prayers.
So my friends fellow bloggers and readers until the next time I blog (which I hope will be soon) God bless and keep you safe :)~deuces~Sarah
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